These are the notes from the final panel of speakers: Funmi Para-Mallam, Kevin Giles, Cheryl Catford, Graham Cole. The Chair of the panel was Mimi Haddad.
It should be noted that these are my notes of the discussion, and are not quoted verbatim. Please don’t quote the following text as such.
A quote is read: “Paul is simply stating that when it comes to women leading the church it is because they are more gullible…” (ME: the quote was much longer, I could only record this much)
Question: How do Jesus and Paul speak to the historical interpretation of gullibility of women?
Answer: (GC) Perhaps the quote would lend itself to the opposite conclusion – men shouldn’t lead churches because they cause the porn problems etc, and then shift the responsibility to Eve! (CC) Men are struggling with identity as much as women. The Eve deception idea comes out of a Patriarchal ideal. (KG) I think the quote is Mark Driscoll. It’s really wonderful that he says it so direct and straightforward – because I argue with people who disguise it under the terms of ‘different roles’. ‘Complementarians’ obfuscate the issues with terms like ‘function’ and ‘role’. 1 Tim 2 is contextual, to take it otherwise leads to the deception of Eve theory. (Funmi) That’s what I experience everyday in Nigeria.
Question: How do you believe the early church set itself apart from the cultural evaluation of women?
Answer: (GC) Ie., Luke 24 – the good news of the resurrection entrusted to women! (Funmi) Example of Mary at the feet of Jesus – that she sat there. Women were in the kitchen, and the males stayed with the guest. Jesus affirmed her. (KG) Paul’s practise demonstrates it – he was in a very patriarchal society. Jesus stated the ideals and Paul dealt with the concrete realities. Paul says that the Spirit is a non-discriminatory employer. There were women apostles. Women prophesied. Prophecy is speaking in the power of the Spirit. Women are deacons (includes meaning of ‘servants of the word’). Paul has male and female co-workers. All early churches were house churches where women taught. In that cultural world, it’s amazing that there are only 3 Pauline excluding statements.
Question: We often view women’s spiritual status through Eve’s failure, but men’s through Christ’s redemption on the cross. What do you see happening in those first chapters of Genesis?
Answer: (CC) Man and woman are standing there when the temptation came. Gen. 1-3 is about the rupture of the relationships. The metanarrative is all about relationship (with God and with all humanity). The hallmark of sin is the pitting of one against the other. Fault-finding. Women do this to men, and vice-versa. But Christ came to repair humanity. The “women’s deception” view is an abuse of power. (GC) I might have a slightly different take on this to some. When I consider the biblical narrative – Paul sees an analogy with what happened in Ephesus and what happened in the garden. When you read Gen. 2 words spoken to the man, they are different to what Eve knew of. Obviously Eve wasn’t the primary recipient of the command. Adam is there but silent (his failure in responsibility – because the Word of revelation came to him). It’s a difference in knowledge in Gen 2. Eve was deceivable but it’s an epistemological problem (range of knowledge available to her).
Question: We often hear Christians complain about the feminisation of the church; that when Jesus is portrayed with feminine qualities, this drives men away. Discuss.
Answer: (KG) There is a 60/40 split of women/men in congregations. A couple of years ago, Southern Cross wondered why Sydney had the same split when it has the male complementarian position. Answer in Southern Cross – we need more manly men! One answer is we need more good looking men (joke!). Another answer is that the best parishes are when there’s a healthy male/female proportion of leadership. We should be aiming for healthy churches with good representation in leadership. BUT, I have serious reservations about the female ordination issue. We swapped problems and put women on their own, and wonder why women aren’t coping very well. Solution needs both – healthy male and female leadership. (GC) It is ironic that male Christian leaders don’t realise they are the bride of Christ! (Mimi) A Church History argument counters this – Amy Macpherson (ME: sp?) drew auditoriums full of men. History disproves this kind of statement.
Question: When a church is looking for leaders, would you say that gender is one of the first questions that is asked? The last thing from my experience is a consideration of Godliness.
Answer: (CC) I think that gender is not often even broached. Large churches don’t even think of approaching women. Women are more likely to get part-time jobs in rural positions. From a board perspective, we always understood that we didn’t have enough women who were qualified. 20 years down the track there is an organisation called ‘Women for boards’ – they have 8000 names on the list, and rarely do they get asked for names. (Funmi) Same problem in Nigeria. Except Pentecostal churches – women are even bishops. They find that the men are very easy to get along with.
Question: Egalitarians seems to presume that any difference in function must be inequality. Comment?
Answer: (Funmi) It’s like saying different and deficient. When you say that equality is not the same thing as function, then you rob equality of it’s very essence. It eviscerates the word of equality, which is actually access and outcomes. That’s what we are always told in Nigeria. (KG) The great problem is that our friends have a new language. Differing roles is normal (eg., mowing the lawns). It’s normal we’re told. Then you unpack it. Check a dictionary. Roles can change. Using this word which obfuscates things, roles are allocated by chromosomes and birth. But really, there’s only one issue – who rules and who obeys. Women by birth are given the role of being subservient. Men are given the role of headship. Women can never assume the role of headship. In a dictionary, roles can change. In this other use, roles can never change. It’s not a role, it’s a relationship in this definition. No answer is every given (by complementarians) when pushed. When you say that roles can never change, then you make it binding. (CC) Clearly when you get out of the western context we see difference in function clearly. I saw on TV a shot in Afghanistan where there was a scene of men whipping a women for refusing to marry. When you talk about obeying and submitting, that’s the rub. (KG) Egalitarians are accused of using third world examples to muddy the issue. But, subordination has massive consequences at home, workplaces etc – not to mention the third world. Is it really enriching people’s lives? Having function becoming inherent in women has a consequence of inferiority. (Funmi) Same in Nigeria. What about when men want to choose a woman’s role?
Question: Most complementarians have a consistent theology, based around gender roles in the garden. Discuss.
Answer: (GC) Complementarians are more variegated than the question may suggest. Is Gen. 1-3 talking about relatedness, or order, or being? Complementarians aren’t all on the same page with the given question. Hence the debate about Sarah Palin – would it be appropriate for a Christian to vote for her? (KG) Yes (in agreement with GC), there are huge diversities. The back of Grudem’s book shows this. The other thing is that there has just been so much 3rd rate quality material written about it. At a scholarly level, the complementarians have a consistent case – creation ideal carefully enunciated. Egalitarians have been slower off the mark. CBE enunciates a position which is getting even more refined (Fee, Giles, Payne). It’s an irrefutable theological position. It’s a way of reading the bible from beginning to end. Not just reading one verse over the whole position. (Funmi) In Africa, we tend not to get bogged down in the text. The verse “the letter killeth, but the Spirit gives live” helped me. I heard the Lord tell me to come away from the pulpit and consider the issue. I prayed and asked the Lord to tell me and show me. And he showed me the Egalitarian position. I don’t think it’s so much as to whether we can arrive at a strong position, but just ask the Lord to show me.
Question: In engaging in debate with Complementarians – is it best to pursue Jesus, or Paul, or the Trinity?
Answer: (CC) You need to recognise that at Pentecost the church is formed. Thus, all of the above. There’s been a strong emphasis on Paul, but we’ve lost touch with Jesus’ response to women. WWJD. (GC) I think it depends on the person I’m speaking to, as to where I start. Ultimately, it’s a question of theological exegesis. That would take some time to do. There are rival narratives at this point. I don’t deal with abstractions such as complementarian/egalitarian “lines” but deal with theology and exegesis. (Funmi) I think everything hinges on Jesus. He’s the one who made creation and holds creation. Any interpretation which differs from Jesus is wrong.
Question: Why are there so many complementarian women?
Answer: (KG) One of the absolute fundamentals of human existence is that the ruling class can get the dis-empowered to imbibe their ideology. Aristocracy: England, apartheid, the caste system. It’s taught like this: “In the sermon this morning, as we do once a month, we look at 1 Tim. 2. Now I want you to go home and look closely at this text, then I want to you listen to God. Now, it’s not my interpretation, but God’s the authority.” It’s internalised. How can you get people to break out and think for themselves. How can you get women to stand up? My evangelical friends won’t speak to me – they’ll think I’m trying to overthrow God’s order. You have to learn and stand up for yourselves. We overthrew apartheid, we need to overthrow this. I think that’s the answer. (GC) Hmmm, that may be part of the answer. I speak to women who don’t know Greek and Hebrew, and can’t engage. I’ve been at dinner parties when one group is dealing with texts, the other group is dealing sociologically. That will cut not ice when it comes to the way forward. What I think is really important to realise, is that we often replace the Pope with the great Bible teachers. Stott, Piper, Carson, Driscoll can be like this. Having said that though, there are other texts in Scripture, which are quite troubling for the evangelical: 1 Peter 3 tells me that Baptism saves me. James 2 tells me that we’re not justified by faith alone. 1 Tim. 2 tells me that women cannot teach. They constitute the same methodological challenge. (KG) Graham, we don’t disagree at all on this issue. Everyone’s genuine. People come to believe these things. The question was ‘how was it internalised’ so I was explaining the sociological issues.
Question: Graham, regarding first order and second order issues. How do we engage with this?
Answer: (GC) We are big on making statements. Jesus was big on asking questions. Paul asks questions. Like, how important is this to you, as a Christian? Is it a Gospel matter? Ie., is the Gospel “Jesus died for my sins, and made women equal in this particular way”. Isn’t that what the Galatians were doing? Adding to the Gospel? Let’s see if we can have the right hand of fellowship with respect to this issue. In saying that however, second order doesn’t mean insignificant. Some second order issues have first order implications. It might underline or undermine the Gospel.